The Other Woman
During “Ask Wendy,” an audience member got up and confessed in front of her friends for the very first time that she’s been sleeping with a married man for the past 10-years.
Could you support a friend who’s been sleeping with another woman’s man?


















Wednesday December 14th, 2011 at 2:46 pm
I have to sound off about this Wendy. How you Doin? Number 1 this woman is as wrong as all get-out! If you know that this man is married there should be no second look. No phone numbers passed. you should just keep it moving. That is what is wrong with these men, there are so many women that will just give it up with out a commitment or a ring that they don’t even have to look further than a 1/2 mile radius and they have them lined up. Women, if you are doing this, I have one thing to say. STOP IT!!!. It begins with you. If you stop accepting that crap they, can’t dish it. You have to believe that you are beautiful inside and out and that a man would love to be with you. And if you are not beautiful inside and out then change it. Beauty is definately in the eye of the beholder, you have control over your destiny. Don’t let some one else drive you to your destination taking you on a trip to heart break, humiliation, and disappointment. You drive your destiny into happiness, joy (true joy) , and contentment (with who you are).
Friday November 4th, 2011 at 7:08 pm
wENDY GIRL HOW YOU DOIN, WENDY I LOVE ME SOME U ,WENDY YOU LOVE YOURSELD AND IVE HEARD YOU SAY THAT YOU LOVE THE WAY YOU LOOK NOW. WENDY IAM 59YR OLD AND WENDY WHEN I CAME UP I WAS LOOKED AT AS BEING BIG FAT AND AS MY MOTHER WOOULD SAY OUT OF SHAPE BUT SHE WOOULD MAKE SURE SHE MAD SOME KIND OF SWEETS EVERYDAY AND I LOVED IT . I CAME UP NOT NOWING WHEERE I BELONG IN THIS WORLD AND THE FIRST MAN THAT TOLD ME I WASPRETTY I MARRIED I WAS A MESS i ALWAYS STOOD UP STRAIGHT AND THAT WAS MY REBELION EVEN THOUGH I WAS GETTING BEATTEN UP I WASS GOING TO STAND THERE WAS NO BASKETBALL,TALL BLACK MODELS WHAT COULD I DO WELL THE SCHOOL SYSTEM SAID I WAS SLOW AND PUT ME IN SPECIAL CLASS WENDY NOW THAT I AN 59 I WROTE A BOOK AND WOULD LOVE FOR U TO READ IT AND ONE DAY I CAN BE A GEST ON THE SOFA WITH MY CREW, A GROUP OF LADIES 6’00 AND UP TO SEVEN FEET I WANT TO MAKE SURE U GET THE BOOK SEND ME AN EMAIL
Friday November 4th, 2011 at 6:46 pm
HUNEY LOOK WHAT THESE CHICKS MAY NOT KNOW IS MISURY LOVES COMPANY, NOW IF YOUR HUSBAND IS A DOG HES GOING TO BE HERE AND THERE . IS IT THE WOMANS FAULT? WELL IT TAKES TWO TO TANGLE AND IF HES LOOKIN FOR SOMONE TO TANGLE WITH THEN THATS ANOTHER ISSUE THAT YOU HIS WIFE NEED TO EXAMINE DO YOU WANT A MAN U HAV TO WATCH WHEN YOUR NOT AROUND WHAT A HEAD ACH GIRL DROP ANY ZERO THAT WOULD DO SOMTHING LIKE THAT, NOW IF YOU STAY WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT GIRL JUST WAIT YOUR TURN HELL GET BACK AROUND TO YOU, AND GUESS WHAT BECAUSE YOUR THERE AT HOME YOULL PROBLY GET IT MORE OFFTEN THEN THE OTHER ONES. MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY GET OUT, SOME PEOPLE SAY YOUR A GOOD LOOKIN GIRL YOU CAN GET SOMONE ELSE, GIRL ITS NOT ABOUT THAT EITHER WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS LOVE YOUESELF TOUCH YOURSELF START SATICFYING YOURSELF GIRL THAT IS THE START OF SOMTHING BIG WHEN YOU CAN ACCOMPLISH THAT THEN IT DOSNT MATTER ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE ITS ABOUT YOU.
Saturday April 16th, 2011 at 11:46 pm
How you doing Wendy? There is no excuse for an affair. That lady on your show is an sorry excuse for a growwwwwwwn woman! I hope that mans wife sees her n beats the he’ll out of her. She needs someone to go ham on her ass!
Wednesday January 26th, 2011 at 7:06 pm
Hey gurl, love your show but of course you know this. HOW YOU DOIN’? Well I’m doing lousy. New years eve they broke n2 my daughters house, stole everything even the food out the frig. You think Detroit police care,hummm. Couple days later on Wed. the DTE energy ppl cut off gas & lites. The next day on Thurs. my car (Honda-CRV-2009) was hit by a city bus. Hey big money rite, not so fast. Since I have a once a month check, my insurance cancelled on Dec.27, 2010 & the accident was the first Thurs. of the month & the first Thurs. of the year. Now I’m back to being carless, I don’t have my inventory for my shop which was given to me to sale & I pay them (which they live n NY)as I make the money, it was stolen out of the house. Now gurlfriend this shop, o Wendy, I live above it, landlord has not finished his work around here, so there are cracks. Those cracks on some nights have bats, YES I SAID BATS, flying around here. I want to have a shop to do my part n bringing Detroit back alive, but come on really, this is tooo much for me to do, and hold on to until things get better. So wat is a girl to do? Give me some advice? This the child with no car, no home, shop with no windows upstairs just boarded up, bats take over at nite, lites & gas cut off at my daughters that I pay for (land contract) it was to be rental property. HELP MY brain IS ON over load. Sincerely
Dumby with tears & my man in NY(thats who the clothes come from) I don’t think he truly loves, HELP. I need a vacation and action. Can we hang out just for one day?
Wednesday January 19th, 2011 at 8:44 am
Sleeping with a married man is not a real relationship, and definitely not something that should be announced on national television–and expect not to get judged behind such an admission.
Of course, one shouldn’t judge, but we all do. So, having said that, advice can be given without passing judgement, although it’s less dramatic and entertaining.
I would support a friend who chose to pursue an adulterous relationship, all the while reminding her that she 1)is not in a real relationship, 2) can not give me any relationship advice, 3)will not be left alone with my husband-ever, and 3)doesn’t complain about the things that he does for his wife and children: the people that are real to him.
Tuesday January 11th, 2011 at 10:53 am
There is no justifcation for an affair. It shows lack of good judgement, low self esteem, lack of control and just selfish. How can you manage the other aspects of your life when your personal life is such a mess. Why settle for someone else’s hand-me-downs. Get your own man or woman! If he cheats with you, he/she has someone else waiting in the wings just in case. She’s too lazy to put in the work it takes to find a decent man.