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Reigniting Your Sex Life

Wednesday April 7th, 2010

Feel the Fire!

After 20-years of marriage it’s easy to lose the spark in the bedroom.

Between raising a family, work and the day-to-day stresses of life, a lot of couples lose their sex drive.

Hear Wendy’s advice for keeping things hot in between the sheets!

Watch It!

Tell Us: Can you relate to this couples story? How do you keep things hot in your relationship?

23 Comments

  1. Wendy!!
    You shouldve told that woman that they have many treatments for a low libido. Many of which will have her chasing her hubby around the house. Maybe she should see her doctor to check because many women see a decrease in sexual desire as they age because they lose testosterone. Tell her to get her levels checked and have her gynecologist take it from there. She has options! And hubby will be super excited!
    Love you and your show!!!
    Nikki

  2. HOW YOU DOING WENDY! I LOVE YOUR SHOW AND I WATCH IT EVERYTIME I GET HOME FROM SCHOOL BUT I WANTED TO MAKE A COMMENT BOUT WHAT YOU WERE WEARING I THROUGHT YOU LOOK GREAT AND YOU LOOK LIKE A 17YEAROLD JUST LIKE ME AND PLUS WE BOTH LOVE EATING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!LOL

  3. hey samanthamia again i would be a great host im good at anything i have a people personality i need a makeover also my mother lucy and sister angela who is facing cancer as i write :) so if you are looking for a great idea im your mia.thank you how u doin…………..lol

  4. Hi Wendy,
    I love your show. I just wanted to make a comment that you mention tonight about Miley Cyrus younger sister and her new children’s lingerie she is about to launch, how sad. You had mention how hard it is for parents to control what our young daughters wear. I totally disagree. I believe that is one of our problem these days that we as parents have lost control over our children and have claimed this defeatus attitude. It is truly not acceptable. I have a 13 year old daugher and a 5 year old son. They are going to do what I tell them to do, which I believe is what is best for them or deal with the consequences. I am the parent and they are the child, bottomline. There are things that I willl compromise with my children on such as food choices, or possibly staying up late or buying something that they like or earned once in awhile, however, I must instill in them the meaning and values of integrity, dignity, self respect and honesty and I can’t settle for less. There are beautiful, fly, hip, and stylish garments are children can wear without them degrading amd belittling themselves..
    Peace and Blessings
    Monique T.

  5. Dear Wendy, Yes I can relate to the 20 years married couple. My husband and I have been together for 20 years and married 18. Presently, I am dealing with sexual frustration as he is impotent and it is driving me to divorce court. Presently I am dealing with Leukemia which is requiring chemotherapy. My husband and I have discussedd that as soon as I am cancer free we are separating or divorcing. I am a very young almost 70, and attractive enough that men still flirt with me. People are surprised when I tell them I am fighting cancer. About my marraige its a shame I will not fight to keep it as my husband is a wonderful man. But, I deserve to have it all. I really believe part of this cancer has to do with my years of sexual frustration being with him. I am a very patient person, but, I have had enough! I want to be a wife with a healthy sex life, he already has 2 sisters. Love your show.

  6. Well i think that you should keep your sex life spice! As hot as you want it to be, now me and my better half well we try it all. We keep it hot and going. We role play and dress up just whatever keeps it HOTTTTT !! Whatever he wants and i want we give it to each other.Men keep her happy and Ladies keep him happy. It all works for the best, cause we both are happy and pleased!!!!

  7. My name is JoeAnn and I am a relationship coach. What I am hearing is something much deeper than what the wife is ready to admit. I believe the wife is actually saying to her partner “I am trying to be heard about something else”— totally unrelated to sex. NOT having sex could be a side-effect of that thing she is not being “heard” about. By unlocking these underlying currents of past hurts we could maybe unleash some sexual components, barring all medical conditions are well.

    I would love to just do some work with them and try to resolve this amazing issue. It would not take long and I would donate my services because it’s the month for LOVE and we all deserve to be loved.

    I LOVE U WENDY WILLIAMS

  8. I am having the opposite problem. I want more sex (I am 47) and my husband has not been into it (he is 50). We are now trying to spice things up by using toys and other new things. We are also starting to have date night. I hope this works!

  9. Wendy:
    Wow!!! I want to still be able to turn my HONEY ON at 120!!! This lady may want to change the mind-set about sex because she is into the marriage at 20 years. She should do some of the following to spice it up, She may want to get some books. Check our Dr. Sue Johansen at talksexwithsue.com

    (1) Seduce her husband while he is in the shower. Wow!!! That may curl his toes.

    (2) Make an ice cream sundae our of him while he’s in bed. Tell him you always wanted to taste his sweets. Ask him what flavor he wants to be, and with or without syrup. LOL. He will love you for it.

    (3) Dance in your birthday suit after a nice relaxing shower to mellow music.

    This is for starters—-This should get them both going!!!

  10. I agree with the lady. I am just watchig the show as i write, and i have never right a comment on anybody’s site but i am doing it now it is because i feel the same way and i am only 22 years old. I love my boy-friend and we live together but i do not like to have sex more than 1 a week and my boy-friend is against that. If he can, he will love to get it twice a day. please read this comment to audiance if possible.

  11. ITZ FUNNY WHEN U SAID DAT SEX IS THE BASIS OF A RELATIOHSHIP I TOTALLY AGREE EVEN THOUGH MY GIRLFRIEND DOESNT JUST THE OTHER DAY AS I WUZ GETTIN OUT OF HER CAR SHE YELLED OUT HOW MUCH SHE LUV ME! MY REPLY WUZ AS IT IS ALWAYZ “U DONT LUV ME U LUV MY DOGGYSTYLE”..LOL.GOTTA GO HERE SHE COMES!

  12. WENDY…WENDY JERSEY GIRLS ARE THE BEST IN THE WORLD. I CAN’T WAIT TO GET TO YOUR SHOW!!!!!!I I APPLIED FOR TICKETS FOR APRIL 8, 2010 AND I HOPE MY DREAM WILL COME TRUE. I HAVE BEEN A FAN OF YOURS FOREVER…YOU ARE THE BOMB!!!!!! AND WANT TO COME TO YOUR SO SHOW SOOOOOOOOOO BAD. I LIVE AND ADMIRE YOU WENDY. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND KEEP IT REAL AS ALWAYS…….HOW U DOING?

  13. I think have sex 3 to 4 time a
    daday isyd. Dddddddd

  14. I agree. You have to keep trying new things. Both my husband and I are in our 50′s. We’ve only been married for 5 (together for 8) but still, you need to try new things. Try different places. I can’t imagine NOT having sex. Maybe as you get older, not as often, and maybe aches and pains make it a bit difficult, but still, forget about your pain for a bit and have FUN!

  15. Wendy, your show does not view in Minneapolis until Noon Central time… getting posts before the show airs (FYI)

    Tell the woman with low sexual desire to start exercising. I can’t tell you what it has done for me!

  16. Its easy to lose the sparks after so many years. Its up to u if u want to keep it. I always keep it interesting. We go to the village every now and them and buy sex toys ;p. It hasn’t been that long but the fire must keep going and going and going

  17. I agree 100% but what should a lady do if her husband only communicate with her when he want sex? Women are emotional beings and require more than “just sex” I think a lot of problem in marriages is the lack of communication (outside of the bedroom). Communicate with a woman as well as meet her needs and she will not deny her man all the pleasure etc. Guaranteed baby! Women have responsibilities where this is concerned and should do their part. When all is well on both ends, the bedroom will be on fire…Guaranteed!

  18. This woman needs not only an outside makeover, but an inside one also. You can’t say your attracted to someone and then turn around and say you shouldn’t need sex after 20 years. If you honestly find your spouse/lover that attractive, you FIND the strength and go for it!

  19. Hi Wendy i too have been married for 20yrs and our sex is good. My problem is the meds i have to take they sometimes take away my drive for sex and my dh thinks it has something to do w/him and i have told him more times than i care to think that its the meds, when i think we r going to get busy i just won’t take certain meds and it all good but its hard sometimes bc my dh is a sex maniac lol…”i told u that before we got married” i just hoped he would slow down by now NOT. Its all good though we do things together to keep it spicy some times not all the time bc i am just to tired at the end of the day..Keep doing u sista

  20. I agree with you Wendy….I think sex is the basis of a relationship….I think it is what joins a man and a woman together closer and closer….and it does make you feel sexy and young…as a married woman…I think sex should be switched and spiced in the bedroom…..married couples should go dating and go to hotels and feel like they once did when once fell in love….I also feel that a couple should not even feel afraid to try toys…Have fun and live…just because you are married and married for so long….does mean that the love, lust, spice, and pleasure needs to stop!

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