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Trying Again after a Miscarriage

Friday January 15th, 2010

Wendy gets all types of questions, but today, this one was personal.

Wendy’s talked very openly about her trouble having a baby and the multiple miscarriages she had before ultimately giving birth to Little Kev.

Hear Wendy’s advice to one woman who had a miscarriage a few years ago and is afraid to try again.

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Tell Us: Can you relate to Wendy’s struggle? What advice would you give?

129 Comments

  1. I would love to have Wendy post some photos on our web site, what an honor and inspiration for our young models.
    http://www.womensshoesnus.com

  2. i had a miscarriage in 2006 with my first pregnancy. it was the hardest thing i had to go through. my boyfriend left me so if it wasnt for my mom and grandmother being there i would have gone through a worse depression. time heals everything. sometimes it takes a little longer than other times. even though it feels like you are going to die because of losing something so dear somehow we pull through. i still think about my first pregnancy especially the day i had to have my baby removed and when its due date would have been. but now i have a wonderful little boy that will be 2 this year and i am so glad that i did have him because he makes my days seem brighter than they ever were in the past.

  3. Wendy, today the drs. Found a big mass in my abdomen and said that it needs to be removed. I am 39 yrs old and she said i should probably have a histerectomy… I dont have any childrens…??

  4. Wendy will you support our web site and models.
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  5. Wendy I am watching your mother’s day and your mom is on.she is fabulous! Wendy you really need to have a “mommie email comment advice at the end of the show she really have a way of giving sincere advise and women like myself enjoy you and your mom it’s an extra beefit from the show I know this probably. Want get read but its just an idea thanks

  6. I have just publish my first book BEING TOO CURIOUS ABOUT LIFE and I would love to have Wendy to reveiw it and give me her opinon.If I can get the mailing address i would be glad to mail out.The book has been inspiring to many.The only way it inspire you if you read it.I am faithfully waiting. Hear from you soon; Thanks in advance.

  7. Wendy,
    I was once with someone for 5 years before I got with my husband, we wanted a baby. I thought that I wasn’t able to have kids. When that relationship ended I started seeing my husband. We were together a month and a half and I found out that I was 4 weeks pregnant.My husband and I had been close friends for 3 yrs prior to getting together. We were shocked but so excited. When I was 10 weeks I went to a weekly doctor appointment(I was high risk with diabetes) and there was no heartbeat. I never cried so hard in my life. So after that I picked up the pieces and went on, working and trying to deal with it. 11 months later surprise I was pregnant again. We were happy, but scared. I didn’t even make to a first ultrasound and we had lost the baby, I was about 8-9 weeks. I told my self I am done I don’t want this anymore. I didn’t want a baby anymore I was tired of the pain it was causing my husband, my self, and my family. 3 months after the second miscarriage I was pregnant again. I didn’t want to be, I didn’t want to go through that again. Well weeks went by and I was 10 weeks..doctor said looks like everything is going well the heartbeat is strong, I think your out of the miscarriage zone. I didn’t believe him, I was still so scared. We we made it to out 20th week and found out that it was a boy. He was born on Aug 4th 2009. He was preemie because I did have some problems later on, but he is healthy happy and beautiful. He is mixed with hazel eyes. His name is Trey Anthony.I am so thankful that I really didn’t give up because I wouldn’t of had him if I did. I am taking a break for now, but I will try again. If I don’t then I might miss out. Everything happens for a reason. On another note, Trey has been watching Wendy since he was born..lol every time he hears the theme song his head turns straight to the TV. When I tell him watch Wendy, he will turn to the TV. Went he can say How You Doin I will be sending it because even though he is almost 9 months he is her biggest fan!!!!

  8. my heart goes out to all of the mothers who have lost children born or unborn. i feel that if it is medically safe to do so, try again. if your heart can take it. as painful as i know it is there is no greater reward than having and raising a child. for the women who cannot concieve there is and will always be adoption. that child too becomes the best part of you. no matter how screwed up you may be. LOL:> spread the love God knows we need it!

  9. I’M A BIGEST FAN OF YOUR SHOW WEDY WILLIAM
    HOW U DOING. CAN I GO TALK TO THIS GUY FROM MAXWALL
    UM WHAT DO I SAY TO THIS HE IS SO CUTE

  10. MY NAME IS LASHUN CHAPMAN
    HI WEDY WILLIAM UM HOW YOU DOING.
    MY FAMILY ALWAY I DON’T KNOW UM FIGHTING .
    WHY MY AUNT IS HAVING THE BABY I DON’T KNOW IF IS THE BOY OR.GIRL
    AND WEDY HOW DO YOU GET BACK WITH MY EX BOYFRIEND MICHAEL DAVID
    HE IS A GOOD LOOKING MAN.

  11. MY NAME IS LASHUN CHAPMAN
    HI WESY WILLIAM UM HOW YOU DOING.
    MY FAMILY ALWAY I DON’T KNOW UM FIGHTING .
    WHY MY AUNT IS HAVING THE BABY I DON’T KNOW IF IS THE BOY OR.GIRL
    AND WEDY HOW DO YOU GET BACK WITH MY EX BOYFRIEND MICHAEL DAVID
    HE IS A GOOD LOOKING MAN.

  12. Hey Wendy,

    I would like to thank you so much for being so honest and strong. I too have had two 5 and a half month miscarriages and totally understand what you mean by keep trying. Last October I had my second miscarriage which was really devastating for me. I’m a very strong and focused person but this was just something my heart couldn’t take. My daughter passed away the moment she was born. I have been so emotional since and I just keep praying and being positive because that’s all I can do. But I would like to thank you so much for sharing your experience because sometimes people act as if you should be ashamed instead of being strong. Wendy I’ll be praying for you. Continue to do you and I know you will have a positive affect a lot of people around the world, like myself…

    <3…a soon to be mommy…: )

  13. How you doing? Girl when I watched this particular episode it struck close to home because I just had a miscarriage in December a few days before Christmas. Although I have five children, to me creating a life is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately they were all created in abuse relationships. On January 1, 2010 a minute after midnight I married the love of my life whom treats me and my children like gold. He himself does not have any biological children. On the April 12, 2010 the birthday of both our 13 and 3 yr old I again miscarried. I blame my own body and myself for not being able to produce a child for the man I love. I can’t sleep at night not knowing the cause. I know we struggle and our not able to live in the best of neighborhoods but the one thing we do is cover our children in love. I do not want for my husband to feel the guilt of these unfortunate events. There are many factors such as the weight gain of us both and possible my age. He is 29 and I am 33. Wendy please help and give some insight. Should we continue to try? Do you have any suggestions?

    A woman with a lot of love to give….

  14. my first child i had at 20 week which is 5 months and she passed aways 5 minutes later….i waited 3 years to have another on and he came early at 23 weeks that is 5 in a half months, and he passed away 15 days later……so now a couples months later me and my boyfriend decided to try again and it’s april and i’m 10 weeks pregnant wit my third child…..and like you wendy i will also have to get the cervical cerclage so i just wanted to know what’s in store for me when i get that like what will be the side effects and risk and how did you deal with that all……

  15. Dear Wendy Williams
    me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant for over a year and no luck here i had had a miscarage before we got together and i had gotten an infection from it but we have been trying and trying to get pregnant and have been seeing a firtility specialist and we have spent over 500 dollars on this doctor and have had no luck with it and it is getting to where we cant afford this doctor because i dont have insurance and have to pay in cash it is hard for to keep trying what the doctor says and not have any results from it he has even put us on chlomid and still nothing we need advice.

  16. I watched a show about people that were in the World Trade Centers on 9/11 and how they were afraid to leave their homes and afraid to pretty much do anything. The therapist on the show told them “Feel the fear and do it anyway”. That was probably the best thing I’ve ever heard in my life. When you think about it, fear doesnt mean danger, its just means unsure. I think she should try at it again.
    I mean, the lady from NJ Housewives had I believe 2 miscarriages and just had a baby a few months back. ANYTHING is possible.

  17. wendy I love your show and the outfits you were are very nice.I also wanted to coment on that kim …….with all do respect I feel like no man will be with a woman with a sex tape out their so let that be a lesson to young girls out there.

  18. I think she should keep on trying everthing happens for a reason just have faith.

  19. How u doin Wendy, loved ur hair dat day u reminded me of mt coz shawn she always wear her hair like dat but it’s soooooooooo cute how she do it if u get this message plz reply back
    love, ur #1 fan tamara robinson

  20. From this I got alot of courage. Wendy inspired me and reminded me that I could try again.

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