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Trying Again after a Miscarriage

Wendy gets all types of questions, but today, this one was personal.

Wendy’s talked very openly about her trouble having a baby and the multiple miscarriages she had before ultimately giving birth to Little Kev.

Hear Wendy’s advice to one woman who had a miscarriage a few years ago and is afraid to try again.

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Tell Us: Can you relate to Wendy’s struggle? What advice would you give?

129 Comments

  1. I love you wendy you are a big inspiration to me. Because if no one I know make me feel like I’m beautiful you do. I appreciate women like you.You motivate me to keep it stepping and I just had a baby in Sept 30, 2011 it’s really hard for me right now and I’m still tryna finish school. I’m eighteen and I graduate in June2012 I’m working my hardest to make the best of this. My son would not be here right now if I didn’t get that emergency C-section when I did and that’s another thing that motivates me and I’m being strong for him. I will never let him down it’s just killing to think I want to give up on me and my family I’m just in need. I believe it wouldn”t happen if God didn’t want it to. And trust me Wendy I don’t regret anything I do. I just need some help also my spouse is doing the best that he with going to work and everything. And tryna pay the mortage it’s really a tough time right now I just wondering in your grace what should I do can you give me any advice. Any help you can recommend me of any kind.

  2. Wendy, your experience is invaluable for mothers who had miscarriage and had no children.

  3. Hi Wendy. Back in 2009, my husband and I were expecting our 1st child, a baby girl. When I was 20 weeks pregnant, I my water broke and went into labor. There was nothing they could do to save her. She was so tiny yet so beautiful. We were so paranoid and scared to ever have another one knowing I had an incompentant cervix. In 2010, I found out I was pregnant again. I had a cervical cerclage at 15 weeks and bed rest for the rest of my pregnancy which we thought would be about 5 or 6 more monthes. When I was 28 weeks pregnant, I went into labor and had our baby boy. He was born 2lbs 14oz, and within 2 days dropped to 2lbs 5oz! He was in the NICU for 64 LONG days and is now healthy as can be! 9 monthes old and 20lbs! So there is hope for women who have this issue. I was SO scared when I got pregnant because I couldn’t loose another child. It was too painful and not a day goes by that I don’t think about her.I hope I gave you some kind of hope or faith.

  4. Hi Wendy,
    My husband and I suffered a devastating miscarriage 3 weeks ago (at 7 weeks along) and at times I feel I’m coping and then I’m devastated like the night it happened. I want to thank you for the courage you had to share with us your story of miscarriages. I am a private person and never shared this with anyone but my parents and now I see how hearing about the experience other women have had means I”m not alone. I find comfort in that and admire your strength to tell us. I turned the TV on that day when you mentioned your numerous miscarriages. I’m sorry for your pain. But having heard you talking about it sometime ago I can now turn to your show to see the strength you had to get through it and how you can glow again. You make us all feel laughter and happiness from your positive energy. Thank you. I’ll keep watching as you make me smile when I’m feeling the saddest. I turn to on my TIVO in the middle of the night and know it’ll be Ok one day.
    Thank you,
    Claudia (Please keep this private, unless you have any words just for me)

  5. Hello all,
    I am so excited that in 4 days me and my husband get to try again after having a miscarriage 3 months ago. It was a very very sad time and we are very happy that it is behind us. I know that God has a plan for us and that our little angel is in Heaven now. We are going to keep trying until it happens but I know this will be the time. I just can’t explain how excited we are. We realize that it will happen in God’s time not in our time. So just thought I’d share that story and can’t wait to come back and share our pregnancy!!

  6. Wendy, I Want you to know when you get my age 63 you will find we women still do most things that you do at 46.Remember they say 60 is the new 40.I feel great have a great sex life and I know I don’t look 63.I have a son(my only child)who is 30.How you doin. Hugs Gloria

  7. Wendy you are absolutely beautiful !!!!!!!!!! The most beautiful thing about you is your personality. But if you don’t mind me asking you, what is your fitness regimen?

  8. Hola Wendy, How you doin?

    I have the most ugliest feet for yearssssss…..I want to be able to wear open toe sandals and shoes without corns and callous showing.

    Please tell me who is the podiatrist you spoke about/recommended on your show.

    Gracias Mami

  9. i know i’m young, only 15 years old. do not have a child. BUT! i feel as if you should always try again because when you do and you have that baby of your dreams, you will be so happy and proud and looking back on it you will know that god wanted it that way. And Wendy as strong and beautiful as she is felt hopeless, and thats how it get but all of you as women should know that life doesn’t end the first time something bad happens, and you just have to keep striving until that baby is born, and i’m sure he/she when he/she grows up, will make you a proud parent and you will be so happy that you tried again and got the child of your dreams. As wendy feels about kevin.

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