Getting Even
Freda was in our audience today and is having an ex-dilemma.
Freda and her ex were talking about marriage and even went window shopping for a ring.
Long story short, they broke up, and he’s now engaged to another woman — who is wearing the exact ring Freda picked out.
Find out what Wendy’s advice to Freda is — America, don’t judge!
Tell Us: Do you agree with Wendy?
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Wednesday June 23rd, 2010 at 1:51 pm
dang the brother could have atleast bought another ring. I don’t think she should dwell on being mad at his sorry behind. He’s an ex for a reason and now he is the other woman’s problem. So what she needs to do is put her self back on the market and leave the past in the past with his cheap a** ring.
Wednesday June 2nd, 2010 at 3:25 am
on the getting even question; we all have many loves in our lives the same way you met him you will meet someone else remeber the next man is not him so don’t hold him accountable for the others actions, It hurts!! I am going through it now I stay busy keep in touch with my friends and everyday it gets easier!!! Some days are difficult but hey love will come again and who is to say he won’t do it to her when he gets tired of her you were saved from a dawg count your blessings now you are free to find someone worthy of your love.
Wednesday June 2nd, 2010 at 3:19 am
Well Wendy I was going to ask you since your mom knows patty if she can do pro-bono work. Heres my story I am a single mom my youngest just graduated from high school today, I am a black woman 42, and I am a Nurse. My children’s father passed away 14 years ago we were together for 16 years. Over the years I have worked a lot to raise my children I have never taken a vacation, never even bought me a new mattress, etc, I have always put my children first. I am starting a new chapter in my life and I want someone to share it with. I broke up with my last boyfreind because he liked alcohol more than me. It was the loneliest relationship I ever had in my life. He wanted to come before my children and was jealous of them when I am all they have. I would love to find someone who is my equal and who has enough love for us all. It seems all I meet are losers who do not have anything to offer. Beyond this man being my man I want a life-long friend someone that I can talk to and share my life with I know how to compromise and discuss issues/not arguing I don’t feel that I need to win every battle. I am excited about life and all that it has to offer. I know that anything that is worthwhile does not come easy. Wendy I have ended so many relationships because they were not the people my children would have benefitted from, I have always put my children first and even though at times it may have hurt me if the person I was with did not seem right for my children to be around or exposed to I let it go. Now that my children are grown I am ready to find that right person to love I accept people for who they are because no matter how old we are we are all a work in progress. Wendy I think you are better than O—- I never watch her but I watch you faithfully I try everyday to be as happy and welcoming as you are to people, I smile all the time. I have never written a letter to any show I figured with the rest of the world being more interesting I am just the average single mom. But you know what Wendy if I had to do it over again I would do it the same way with the same children, they say what don’t kill you only makes you stronger and you know what they ain’t never lied.Wendy in closing I hope that I am not being too greedy I just want to have someone that loves me for me, a new mattress new bedrooms for my children, and to see what its like to take a vacation, like the rest of america and you know what the company I work for doesn;t offer vacations if I take one I don’t have income for however long I am gone doesn’t that suck!! But I need one I am jealous when you say where you go ALL OF THOSE PLACES WHAT A BLESSING!!!! I just want a chance at life oh yeah before that my mom was disabled I took care of her too from age 12-26 and their father who became ill, now do ya think I need a vacation or what!! I LOVE YOU WENDY THANKS FOR LETTING ME GET THIS OUT OF MY SYSTEM AND INTO YOURS (SMILES) LOVE ANTOINETTE
Saturday April 3rd, 2010 at 10:45 pm
Wendy How you doin? I have a question i know that Patti on Millionaire Match maker is your girl i think cause your mom and her mom is friends.Now wendy im like you straight not biting my mouth for no one but i was watching her show a few times. Just because you mention you watched on weekends reruns back to back.Wendy when i watched her she’s very good at what she does, but she ain’t god to thing she can really find real love for no one.Yes i respect her flow as a woman and i know i don’t have to watch if i don’t want,but whats her promblem with black women? I have even seen a very nice sista with nice decent outfit and cute hair style with the swing to the side, and she was very nasty to the sista and everyone else yes,but why the sisters arent good enough for her millionaires.I dont want to hear about they are jewish guys im sure some white guys that arent jewish will like the a sista as well. Wendy that girl hair wasn’t even wild or nothing,i know if you saw her you would be like plzz, cause you and i love big hair.All i see sometimes she is quick to hook up some tacky looking white girls on these men.
Some sista’s if she dont know have way more class than some white girls.With even all these cheating men,sista’s not coming out like them for 15min fame.Theres ways of handling things without hurting others.Pattie i don’t like her way much,sh’e a very mean and all for white chicks thats just my opinion wendy,there i said what i see.Yes there is one sista that was on reality tv on there, she now must go sit her ass down cause we know she is all for tv im sure but all other cute sista’s need not to be be seen,to be told they arent good enough. What she thinks woman of color is gold diggers only plzz, some white chicks are more money hungry than anyone i can think of, who’s coming out here for money plzz. I dont know whether you’ll say anything to her,but someone like you wendy need to check her before she reck herself.
Monday March 8th, 2010 at 6:04 am
whats ur view on mesotherapy and lipodisolve
Wednesday February 17th, 2010 at 10:54 pm
I AGREE IF HES NOT GOING TO MAKE THE EFFORT TO GET A DIFFERENT RING AND THAT WOMAN MIGHT MAKE THE WORST DECISION OF HER LIFE AND END UP WITH DIRTY LIAR GO SCREAM AD SHOUT
HOW YOU DO’N WENDY!!!
Thursday February 11th, 2010 at 5:38 pm
i would have been angry because that is nt rite but i feel her pain so….this just goes to show u neva eva trust a man