23 Comments

1. 
   Friday December 4th, 2009 at 11:06 am

   Kathy,
   I am convinced that you are really crazy and rode on the short bus when you were little. I am sitting alone in my classroom and laughing my ass off. I almost spat out my sandwich. Your sister and husband fiasco was a real hoot. I hope you become Wendy’s White Gail. Wendy will always have something to laugh about.
   Keep laughing,
   Jacqueline Arigbede
2. 
   Wednesday December 2nd, 2009 at 4:36 pm

   Dear Wendy, got some bad news for you, Joey, on friends, used that line
   ( How you doin ), check it out…..sorry
3. 
   Wednesday December 2nd, 2009 at 3:06 pm

   My exhusband and father of my children were married over 17 years and we have 2 children from that marriage. He fornicated on me even after we had counseling. I realized he had a character flaw. I divorced him and raised the kids. He remarried. She was not as nurturing as I was. He grew very ill and she did not wish to take care of him so she sent him to me. My son and I took him in and cared for him until he died. She did not know he was terminally ill until my daughter requested a picture her Dad and I bought for her when she was very young. His wife said, “you want everything.” She tried to call him and learned he was terminally ill. She went to the hospital and saw him and left. He was cremated. She did not let the children now in their 20’s participate in disposing of his ashes. I just learned I can claim widows benefits. I believe she has already.

   We are good. My children rec’d child support for 2 years after the divorce and she filed on the insurance she had on him and allowed the family $5000 for the funeral services.
   His family did not recieve my kids well. Ever. They never accepted me. I was power of attorney over him until he died ( his son and I). The staff at the hospital suggested that be done before he became so ill he could not sign. No one knew her at all. His name was mispelled on the obituary. My ex husband was Randolph J Anderson Jr , his father was Randolph J Anderson Sr and my son was Randolph J Anderson 11. He was only mentioned as Randy and my daugther, Stacy. I was listed as a friend. My children were not bastards Wendy. My children now understand why they were never accepted and no visits were made to them except when my daughter married. It was ugly.
   I forgave him over and over for hurting me. He made sure he asked often. I pray for his second wife because she is going to have to deal with God one day and she will apologize to him one day.

   I am also a conqueror. I survived cancer, I have no job and partly because I don’t speak spanish. In Texas its almost a must. I am over 50 and I am applying for disability because the jobs I loose is due to my disabilities and missing work.
   I am filing this month at the Social Security office. Hope I get it.
   I learned through Social Security that since I did not remarry I am eligible for widows benefits.