Ask Wendy: The Ultimate Betrayal
What do you do when the two people closest to you hurt you the most?
The latest “Ask Wendy” question comes from Revonia in Georgia who writes:
Dear Wendy, I have been with this guy for 10-years and we’ve been married for 4. I recently discovered that he was having an affair with my twin sister. I‘ve tried to find forgiveness in my heart for both of them but it’s hard. I had to experience so much hurt and pain. Me and my sister have always had a close relationship. I always had her back no matter if she was right or wrong but I’m struggling with being able to trust again. How do I even begin to move forward with my life?
Find out Wendy’s advice for dealing with the ultimate betrayal.
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Monday January 25th, 2010 at 10:44 am
I aggree no forgiving that get rid of garbage and start new life with a bottle of nuvo!!!!!
Tuesday January 19th, 2010 at 3:22 am
wendy i wanted to know what should you do if one of you “friends” was talking behind you back should you beat them up, stop talking to them or both?????? please write back ♥
Sincerely,
Your Fan
Saturday January 16th, 2010 at 11:29 pm
I really do agree with you wendy. But that brought tears to my eyes that situation. If he cheat with someone that close to her. He would cheat again. A cheater is always a cheater. Obliviously he was not in love with her to do that.
Saturday January 16th, 2010 at 1:40 am
Mrs. Williams I just won’t to know when will we the world would get a close up on your big bling wedding band i just love it the most i can see of it
I love you Mrs. Williams
how you doning
Friday January 15th, 2010 at 8:22 am
hey wendy wat to do if my step daddy mama tries to hold my mama bak from hurtn my brother should i hurt my step grandma.lol
send me sumthn bak wen u get dis message.
Wednesday January 13th, 2010 at 7:24 pm
Girl dont worry about it it will be all right let the past go and the future keep on going and tell him that in order to love him you have to trust him and right now you dont trust him yet but trying to love him and you dont even have to speak to your sister unless its in important and let her apologize to you and let her promise dont be nasty toward your husband thats not right tell her she need to get her a man of her own.Bye
Wednesday January 13th, 2010 at 11:28 am
Wendy,
After Kim Coles appeared on your show to promote her game show on BET; she and the show have disappeared!
What happened???
Wednesday January 6th, 2010 at 12:39 pm
Hi Wendy,
How You Doin?
I love your show and really appreciate the topics you present. I was watching the show when you talked about the rapper 50 cent and how our zodiac sign makes us appear to others. I am a Cancer also and have often been accused of being “hard” or “tough” when in reality I am very loving, sensitive and my fellings are easily hurt. I tend to display a tough exterior to protect myself from pain and hurt imposed by others.Thanks Wendy for clarifying those points. By the way I agree that 50 cent is probably a really sweet guy when he is in a relationship.
Love Ya Wendy! Bye
Wednesday January 6th, 2010 at 10:13 am
ONE MORE COMMENT HOW YOU DOING
Wednesday January 6th, 2010 at 10:12 am
I would like to comment on the show. I have been watching you since you came on the air and I have seen the show repeats. Why are you repeating the stars so soon. You know a million people because of the radio and still its just January and you have the same guest on the show. WHATS UP WITH THAT? You an do better I have also seen you wear the same clothes CHANGE THEM ALSO. COME ON WENDY I AM SURPRISED AT YOU.
Tuesday January 5th, 2010 at 3:14 pm
hey wendy how you doin? i just wanted to know if it was tru bout keyshia cole having a baby wit her nba boyfriend boobie gibson? holla back.
Tuesday January 5th, 2010 at 3:03 pm
I agree with Wendy about the husband cheating with the twin sister. How can u move pass that but to divorce him there is no longer any trust. Every time you see him and your sister how can one trust them to be together in the same room. One simply can not. She must move on and work on forgiving her sister. Blood is thicker than water , and baby he is water. good luck
Tuesday January 5th, 2010 at 1:12 pm
Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Wendy. I miss your show so much when are you going to come back i miss coming home from work and have nothing to watch please hurry off of your vacation cuz i miss you peace ur #1 fan
Tuesday January 5th, 2010 at 12:24 pm
Hi
I registered for 4 tickets 2/1/10, I haven’t heard from the audience department, I was wondering if I will be hearing from anyone or I just did not get the tickets, their were seats available when I requested, I filled out form and all…I would really appreciate you getting back to me because I asked some friends to come with me and I believe they need to take off from work. I will be looking forward to hearing from you and hope to be on your show 2/1/10….Thank you and have a great day…
Saturday January 2nd, 2010 at 3:22 pm
Wendy have you heard any gossip about the Music Industry and other high powered people joining this group called the Illumanti?You know the ones that have supposed to sold their soul to the devil for fame,cash,etc.You must check out you Tube for this crazy stuff.
Wednesday December 30th, 2009 at 10:25 am
wendyy i am 12 and i really would lovee to meet justin bieber i am near were ur studio is but my mom is workin so i cant goo but i would love to meet him i am crying right now in my moms work because i cant see justin bieber i would like u to tell him i love him and that he doesnt listen to my letter like an normal fan this is my dream and i am not going to give upp pleasee wendy please help me meet justin pleasee i would wait for a response or call but try to read mine please i am begging =(
Wednesday December 30th, 2009 at 12:40 am
HI WENDY (HOW YOU DOIEN) SHE SHOULD NOT TRUST HER TWIN BECAUES IF SHE HAVE ANOTHER BOYFRIEND OR HUSBEN SHE MIGHT TACK HIM
Saturday December 26th, 2009 at 11:04 pm
Tiger wooods should have gotten that all out of system before he settled down with marriage. It is crazy that people get married in a lavished style and then decide no longer want to be married to that person. Tiger woods is a damn fool and I am hoping tha his father’s death is not the cause of it. Because every one grieves differently. But he should have never had children with her if he was going to be acting like an idiot. I am no thrilled that it came out like he murdered some one all he did was cheat and that is not the worest thing it is just terrible that it has to be played out in the media and his children will suffer.
Saturday December 26th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
For the sake of peace piece of mind let it go and move on no one as to put up with this kind of behavior regardless of what marriage is not about cheating and he has violated you in the worest way. I know that one very well I will say that my ex- husand cheated with on me with my best friend and we were like sisters and when I found out about it he said something and she then confirmed it let me tell you the papers were signed and I moved on with his little girl on myside and said never again will I trust any one eventually I forgave her but as for him that part died along with many other things No!! do not allow this kind of treatment to go on he lied and your sister needs to understand that she also violated your trust and she has to earn that back in every way known to man in this case woman please leave him like yesterday and no I am soory will ever make up for what he has done to you!!!
Saturday December 26th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
Hi wendy ( HOW U DONIG) See i know a friend who had got RAPE .She doesn’t want to tell her parents. What do i do?