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Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 10:40 pm
HEY i have a problem i have my boyfriend is “hanging” out with other girl in his school then i find him in my room with another girl and hes saying that he was just there fixing her skirt. so now i moved out the home we shared and move in with my firend. now hes coming back on his hands in the cold rain at 2:00 in the night asking me to be his wife now i dont know what to do please help i really dont know what to do.
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
Hey Wendy,Just want to say that i love everything about you. I watch you every evening when i get in from work and if i happen to miss a day i have to call my aunt and she’ll fill me in,she loves you so much. Your’e soooo wonderful,keep it up.
Ure biggest fans in Jamaica (my aunt merna and i )
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
Hello Wendy:
How you doin?I really enjoy your show very much,and I watch it on TV station WLVI-TV Channel 56 here in the Cambridge/Boston,MA area.your show is really great.Keep up the great work that you are doing.
About me: I am a 46 year old Single White Male from my hometown of Danvers,Massachusetts in the USA..I would like to know if you know of any very nice”Single Women”between the ages of 42/43 to 47 years old who would like to meet me.I cannot travel,nor relocate to meet anyone outside of my area,and I would like to meet someone nice.
My interests are:Dancing,walks,cooking,computers,surfing the internet
dining in/out,and much much more.
I am 5’10″ tall at 209 or so lbs,and I have brown hair,and eyes.I am a non-smoker,non-drinker with no children of my own,and I have been single all of my 46 years without a dating,dancing,or a marriage partner,and I have never dated any other non-disabled,or any”Normal”single women in the past 30 years.
I am currently looking for a very nice single girl 5’2″-5’5″ tall 109-117 lbs
for friendship first leading into dating,LTR,marriage,and loves to dance,plus likes to hold hands with me,while I hold her other hand,so me and her can grow old together,plus is the same as me,who has no children of her own..I am looking for a very nice girl for a “girlfriend,bride,and a wife”.
So if anyone is really interested in meeting me just send me an e-mail and I will try to answer as many as I can.All of your replies are welcome.
Once again thanks for letting me watch your show,and
best wishes for a very”Happy Thanksgiving”&Happy Holidays.
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 6:40 pm
Hi Wendy, My woman and i have been watching your show from day one. And we no longer watch that grey hair guy. We think you are great at what you do you us laught. Besides you are a whole lot better looking then the other guy. We order tickets but won’t get them till Feb. We are looking till then to see you. love charlene & lou
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 6:19 pm
Hey Wendy,HOW YOU DOIN!!!!!!!!!
Im 14 years old and I LOVE your show.I have a SERIOUS PROBLEM.So i’ve been liking this boy for about 2 months now and we have been getting really close.But when I told my friend about him she said that she used to like him too and now shes flirting with him and they’ve been txting eachother nonstop.Now I think that he likes her instead of me and it breaks my heart.Wendy,should I comfront her about it or should I just keep it to myself and get a new person to like?PLEASE HELP ME WENDY………
Happy Thanksgiving!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Wendy….Just love love your show. I am a 56 year old woman who has decided that I want a shape like yours and when I see you dressed like you were the day before Thanksgiving in the tan dress it motivates me more. Down already 11 pounds and hope to do better by Christmas…gonna get me some of those high heels also..lol.
Keep up the good work..
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 5:36 pm
hi wendy, happy hoildays I just want to say I love the dark wigs on you. They bring out your true beauty. I am a license hair stylist if that helps.
thanks
Robin Westbrooks
Baltimore,maryland
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 5:18 pm
hello Wendy! how you doin’? i just want to tell that i watch your show everyday afterschool . even when my boyfriend tries to turn the channel . he says its too girly but hey , i love it . you are so flamboyant. you are truly a friend in my head . smootches!:-*
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
Hi Wendy, My name is Nikki. I just love your show…Well here is my question. I have been with my current boyfriend for over a year now. We have dated on/off for about 8 years now during those times we’ve been engaged twice. This last time we got engaged and broke off the engagement to work on some issues we were/are having. I really do love him, but I have a feeling that he has been talking to someone else. Sometimes I would come out of the bedroom and hear him on the phone saying things like “Do you miss me yet” or “Don’t miss me to much”. I never really hear him say those things back. He tells me gets tired of the arguing, but I told him we wouldn’t argue so much if he paid more attention to me and didn’t keep things from me. I really do love him and want to be with him. What should I do?
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 2:57 pm
Hi Wendy,
My husband and I love your show. He watched it when he got a chance to but I watch it everyday as long as I am home. Anyways, my question is I am an army wife and my husband just left for his 4th deployment. Of course isn’t easy but with the holidays right around the corner and I will be going to Ohio for Christmas, my thing is that I don’t want a pitty party and always asked how are you, are you doing ok and the ten million question that follows. I am not new to this. How do I tell my family that I don’t want the pitty party and not to always ask how I am doing regarding to the deployment??
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 12:54 pm
Dear Wendy,
How You Doin?
I have been in a relationship for almost 2 months with my boyfriend. My ex-boyfriend is constantly calling me telling me I need to break up with my boyfreind and get back with him. I really like my boyfriend but he is too busy for me. When I’m not talking to my boyfriend I am talking to my Ex. Should i break up with my boyfriend and try to work it out. Or should I take my Ex-Boyfriend back? Please Help Wendy. I am so confused.
Have a Safe Holiday.!
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Dear Wendy,
First i want to say I LOVE YOU! Your so fun, you make my day! Ok, so my husband and i are getting divorced because he found messages that i was sending to another man…who lives in japan. He would come home from work every day and it would be like i wasn’t even there. I felt ignored and hurt. Do you think theres a chance that we can make it work?
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Hi Wendy.. how you doin’? I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year this week and a couple of months ago he broke up with me b/c he found out he had a child (a newborn), that he claims was before we officially became a couple. I wasnt too receptive about the situation.. i mean who would be happy that their boyfriend has a newborn with someone else when he’s dating you? Anyway he begged for me to give him a second chance and I did. Since we’ve been back together I’ve super insecure and he pays me no attention. He doesn’t call me, he randomly texts me and claims that he just so busy with school. I feel like I’m wasting my time, so should I wait for him to get done with school and see if things will get better?
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
wendy,I been with my husband 9yrs. married6yrs. and we are now separated because he has cheated he says he has not but my says otherwise please tell me what to do.
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
Hi Wendy,
My wife and I watch or tape you daily. We don’t have a problem but we would like to give a shout out to Mya for her lost to an Osmond last night on Dancing. We love this show and from your comments we know you don’t watch and unfortunately we will not be watching any more either. This is the third year that the judges blatantly thought they could pick the winner not based on talent but popularity. Well friend in my head have a wonderful holiday.
How you doin???? We doin fine!!!!
The Taylor’s
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 11:56 am
Wendy.. How YOU doin?,
I had Brain surgery to stop my grand mal seizures, the surgery couldnt totally stop my seizures without taking out the part of my brain that allows me to speak.
After the surgery I was given pills, their side effects threw my equillibrium off so much that I couldn’t see or walk straight. (Just a second, I need a kleenex..this has been really emotional.) The only thing that keeps my seizures in check is what keeps me from going out into the working world.
Anyway, on your show, You know how you say someone can be your “friend in your head?” I just want to let you know… YOU have been my friend…IN MY HEAD. (another kleenex) You are light hearted, real, fun, and I WISH I would I would have had you as a role model growing up.(I’m six feet tall, size 13 shoe… that’s another story.) You speak to your audience not at them and I love that.
I am 39, I was a H.R. Director for 13 years before the brain surgery, now I’m stuck at home playing Housewife,… SOMEBODY save me. Do you have any ideas for work I can do from home? I’ve looked and just about scammed, or had opportunities that require start up money I don’t have. Even if you can’t help just let me know you got this.
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 11:55 am
Wendy
I have a dielma….I have threee yound girls…Haven(8) Zalee(7) Aathyleia(8months)…all my children are from my ex husband of 4 years..married for 8…Well if yu see by the last child we had her recently..me and my ex husband are not together and have never tried tobe back together… Since my two other chhildren have visitation with there dad everyother weekend and holidays…my daughters have been stressed about leaving there babysister behind to go see there dad, because there dad wants nothing to do with there babysis…they are hurt and they cry about being split apart..they have voiced there opinion about leaving there sister behind..he responds “she is a baby and needs her mommy”….the holidays are comming up and again i dont want my children to be split up “FAMILY” is Thanksgiving and Christmas Time…WHAT SHOULD I DO? HOW DOI APPROACH WITHOUT BEING NASTY? PLEASE HELP WENDY…
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 10:54 am
how come married man and men that have have girl friends always trys to push up on me how can i meet a single man that is real.
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 10:35 am
congradulations on being “WOMAN OF THE YEAR” on the Soup last week.. you and Jel are great:)
Wednesday November 25th, 2009 at 10:26 am
Hey Wendy Just watching your show (Thanksgiving episode) your hair looks amazing in that chocolate brown , the wavy curls and length Just look Great! The banded gold dress is FAB…In my opinion best outfit to date . I’m a girl who very rarely gives compliments to other girls but I had to comment because thats so my stlye . Keep up the good work and being a positive role model to young women to own it and be real.
Happy Holidays