Ask Wendy: Dating Your Sister’s Ex
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This question comes from Qui in Texas who writes:
Dear Wendy,
I have been married for 10 years and I have 2 kids. My youngest sister is seriously dating my ex-boyfriend from high school. My ex and I had dated for 3 years. It has been 15 years since high school, but he still had a special place in my heart and plenty of secrets. Should I have a problem with this?
Find out Wendy’s advice for dealing with an ex-boyfriend stealing, pesty little sister!
Tell Us: Is it ever okay to date your sister’s ex?
Thursday March 4th, 2010 at 10:16 am
hey wendy i love the sh** out of you, but i have a question do you plan on having tyler perry on your show, OMG wendy i think i will possibly pass out on your show, i believe he is the sexiest man there is and im pretty sure he is single please if he should get an invitation to your show please let me know thanks sister girl in my head
Tuesday March 2nd, 2010 at 12:11 am
I wouldn’t mind going out with Teresa – the girl from Hartford CT on your March 1st show. I so disagree though that a guy can’t just be friends with a girl. I have quite a few just female friends and they love me to death.
cheers!
Saturday February 27th, 2010 at 7:16 pm
ol my gosh…..thats a big no no….Whateva my sis touches or even looks at is off limits.but you will always that one sis that thinks she better or pretttier than you and think she can have whateva man she wants even if its your ex or lover.My sis kissed a guy I dated.She blamed it on the drink and said she was drunk.But the guy came to me before saying that she was checking him out one time.After the whole ordeal they both wanted eachotha.I told both of them were triflen and told the guy to lose my numba.at the end of the day she will always be my sister.So just let it go and nothing will come good of that relationship because the grass is not grener on the other side.Your married now and be grateful he wasnt the guy you married.If he’s attracted to your sister now.What do you think would of happened if you married him.Knowing that your sis goes after your leftovers….
Thursday February 11th, 2010 at 5:31 pm
i wuld have a problem if my younger sister dated me ex especially if he still has feelings for me. that is a big no no. i wuld have a bigger problem with my sister. even thou me & him r nt datin i wuld feel a lil betrayed
Monday February 8th, 2010 at 8:07 pm
i think your fabulous. and thanks for being real.
Thursday February 4th, 2010 at 7:23 pm
I agree you should not date your sisters EX. Now to my question is Dennis Haysbert single. I don’t ever see him on any shows. I think he is find i would love to talk to him. Please do not put this on the air .
Tuesday January 26th, 2010 at 11:20 am
no no and more no its just wrong…………………………….
Tuesday January 26th, 2010 at 11:12 am
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Sunday January 24th, 2010 at 2:03 am
okay girl it is not okay what your sis did thats like her betrying the sister trust but you just go on with your life whats happend has happend and you go get you a new boyfriend……………and leave the past in the past okay………………
Wednesday January 20th, 2010 at 9:40 am
Boi..did my sister do this (date my and slept with my ex’s)..and she still approves of this behavior today, it’s funny because I was so incredibly hurt when she did this,that I lost my appetite for a couple of day-lol,this had never happened because I ‘m a foodie. I had decided to finally ask her because it was rumored..heck she was sleeping with her neighbors man! I when I asked she totally beat around the question..but anyway I saw emails and so on..and another ex of mine confirmed he had contact with her.
To conclude I had always had a low self esteem and my sister considers herself the prettiest and she is..it’s just on the inside she is pathetic–you know the type lost custody of her kids,selfish,she comes first in her life.Through all this I still Love my sis,I just don’t like her as a person and the self esteem that she had lowered even more! I decided to turn that situation around into away to better my self mentally and physically. I am working on this now.