Ask Wendy: Dating Your Sister’s Ex
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This question comes from Qui in Texas who writes:
Dear Wendy,
I have been married for 10 years and I have 2 kids. My youngest sister is seriously dating my ex-boyfriend from high school. My ex and I had dated for 3 years. It has been 15 years since high school, but he still had a special place in my heart and plenty of secrets. Should I have a problem with this?
Find out Wendy’s advice for dealing with an ex-boyfriend stealing, pesty little sister!
Tell Us: Is it ever okay to date your sister’s ex?
Monday February 8th, 2010 at 8:07 pm
i think your fabulous. and thanks for being real.
Thursday February 4th, 2010 at 7:23 pm
I agree you should not date your sisters EX. Now to my question is Dennis Haysbert single. I don’t ever see him on any shows. I think he is find i would love to talk to him. Please do not put this on the air .
Tuesday January 26th, 2010 at 11:20 am
no no and more no its just wrong…………………………….
Tuesday January 26th, 2010 at 11:12 am
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Sunday January 24th, 2010 at 2:03 am
okay girl it is not okay what your sis did thats like her betrying the sister trust but you just go on with your life whats happend has happend and you go get you a new boyfriend……………and leave the past in the past okay………………
Wednesday January 20th, 2010 at 9:40 am
Boi..did my sister do this (date my and slept with my ex’s)..and she still approves of this behavior today, it’s funny because I was so incredibly hurt when she did this,that I lost my appetite for a couple of day-lol,this had never happened because I ‘m a foodie. I had decided to finally ask her because it was rumored..heck she was sleeping with her neighbors man! I when I asked she totally beat around the question..but anyway I saw emails and so on..and another ex of mine confirmed he had contact with her.
To conclude I had always had a low self esteem and my sister considers herself the prettiest and she is..it’s just on the inside she is pathetic–you know the type lost custody of her kids,selfish,she comes first in her life.Through all this I still Love my sis,I just don’t like her as a person and the self esteem that she had lowered even more! I decided to turn that situation around into away to better my self mentally and physically. I am working on this now.
Monday January 18th, 2010 at 8:38 pm
People shouldn’t but the fact is, Someone you once loved will always be with you ’til the day you die. All of the past memories and emotions that people have with exes is something you want to keep for your self. That makes it special. If you’re sharing these feeling with your sister. It doesn’t seem special anymore. You know what I mean? And for your sister, she should know how you felt for this person before and forget about it, sisters should know not to hook up with your sisters EX, That is just like a bond that every sisters should go by.