Mommy Guilt
We all have mommy guilt.
Wendy had a difficult time after giving birth to little Kev and was only able to breastfeed for two weeks.
Part of her felt like a failure because she didn’t want to breastfeed, didn’t want to admit it and didn’t know how to be a mother.
It was Wendy’s own mother who helped pull her up and made her not feel guilty.
Watch this must see moment and tell us if you can relate to Wendy’s mommy guilt?
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 4:31 pm
Is it just me or does Wendy Williams resemble Oprah Winfrey morphing into Mariah Carey? …How you doin’ !…
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
¿Cómo estás Wendy? I love your show! I want to comment on your mommy guilt. I just had a miscarriage two month ago. I was 5 months pregnant and having a boy. I’m still not over it because just like you it was my 3rd miscarriages. I have no kids and I really thought that this was the one. I was shopping for him, looking for names, and thinking about what college he’ll go to etc. My boyfriend just breakup with me and I’m in a very sad place now. My family and friends are saying get over it, go party, and moving on. But I feel like they don’t know what am I going thur and the support I’m looking for isn’t there. I didn’t know if I am sad because I may not be able to have children, losing my boyfriend for 5 years, or what it is? I feel so empty and watching your show on Thursday made me realize why am I so sad. It’s guilt! Thank you for always keeping it real and for not being afraid to show your emotional side on television. Look at you now your fabulous now and happy to be a mother. It makes me feel that “Hey one day I will too.” I love wendy! Thank you! How you doin?
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
The one thing I love about Wendy is she a real person we all can relate too. Even though she has made it, she still relates to the common person. Sharing her experience on the time after her son’s birth was a very emotional moment. When she paused while she was talking, I knew she was going to cry and I started welling up to just seeing how emotional it made her feel. But Wendy being the true professional that you are, you went on through with your little monologue. I love you my dear and yes we are all hot messes so that is why we can relate.
P.S. When are you and Chelsea Handler going to square off? Both of you ladies are my guilty pleasures and I have to have my daily Wendy and nightly Chelsea. Also I grade all your audience members that step up to the mike. One day girl, you had someone on ask Wendy, come up in a blue shirt have bologna under his pits (big sweat stain). The whole time he was on camera, I couldn’t take my eyes off the 2 big pieces of bologna under his arms. LUV YA….
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 11:27 am
hey!!!! wendy…HOW U DOING!!!!!…i love ur show.i watch it every night..now my mom watches it with me…wendy i have a seroius problem and i need your help cause you’ve been through it..on ur show u have been talking about wieght and how you were 200 pounds going to 300 and how you put it to a stop..well wendy i’m 16 and i wiegh 241…yes i know..i have to say u do look great and u have a great figure..i’m happy with my body but would like to lose wieght and the belly..so i was thinking i woould get liposuction like u did..wat do u think? i really don’t want to go 300 but on both family sides were big plus i’m bigboned.
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 10:50 am
Wendy
How U doin’. I”m a Muslim brother from Brooklyn now living in Atlanta, so I’m very familiar with you. I wasn’t a big fan of your radiio shows however I’m glad that I was taught to be open minded about people because after watching your show I have to say that you have trully changed my opinion of you. Sharing your personal life situations on TV made you more of a human being and you really are a phenomenal sista. Your show is a hot mess and I think that in and of it self is the attraction. Keep up the good work and keep shining sista.
Aqiyl
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 10:03 am
How you doing Wendy!!!!
I felt like you also 4 1/2 years ago when my little boy was born. He was 2 months premature, I got to pump a weeks worth of milk for him but felt so bad. Also felt like it was my fault that he was born so early.
I have to tell you here is 4 1/2 years later and is the most amazing little boy and we have an amazing bond. He also tells me if we’re home at 10 am that he needs to watch his “girlfriend” Wendy. LOL it’s the cutest thing.
Thank you for being so real and fun to watch!
Best of luck with the show it’s amazing!!!!
Maggie
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 7:52 am
You are so ridiculouslyy funny, love the show…..you so fabulous…lots of love to you…
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 6:16 am
Hey Wendy…. How u doinnnng?!!! Girl,,,, I love your this show!!! I breastfed my son for three weeks only and he didnt even want to get it from my breast. I use the breast pump for three weeks and it was the longest three wks ever. The most painful also next to going to labor and all…
But with my daughter,,, I couldnt even breastfeed at all. She is 7 months old now and we bonded fine… I feel for you when u started crying, it almost made me cry also but both of my kids were sleeping and I didnt want to wake them up with my crying… PM depression has been really hard after my second pregnancy…
I would like people to know that they dont have to breastfeed a baby to bond with them… There is other things you can do to bond with your baby. Your baby will bond with you no matter what!!! I try my best to raise my kids. Im not the greatest but Im a ok mom…
My man gives me grieve because I couldnt breastfeed my kids but I dont care because my kids love me regardless…
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 5:15 am
Don’t feel guilty. Those angels chose YOU to be their mother beacasue they knew you have enough love to give them for them to go straight to HEAVEN ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! Just as your son choose You to learn, live and love. GOD Blessed You and GOD BLESS YOU.
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 3:26 am
How Youuuu Doin?! I was flipping through channels several weeks ago and found your show and have since begun to DVR it because I love it so much. I am an almost 40 year old mom with a teenage son and I did not breast feed because one of my breasts didn’t produce enough milk. I was 20 then and didn’t feel any guilt at all until years later when friends and family began having children. It seems every single one of them breast fed. That’s when I began to put an enormous pressure on myself that I had somehow been less of a mom for not breastfeeding. Now I am post hysterectomy, my son is a senior in high school, and, though we fight, we are close. I can’t imagine breastfeeding would have made me closer than we currently are. So to all you new moms, you should know that the decision only affects you and your baby, no one else. Whatever you choose, you should be proud because your decision is made with love. Thank you, Wendy, for acknowledging the strength you gained from your experience and having “no regrets”!!!
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 1:35 am
That touched my heart!!! I am the total opposite though. I breastfed my son, now almost 7 months, for 5 months. I had to stop because he began teething. I do not see how I had the PATIENCE for that long, but lawd lawd!!! So to all who wants to know…it is possible. Everyone be bless…and Wendy…HOW YOU DOIN?!?!?
Friday August 28th, 2009 at 12:34 am
I just had a daughter 5 months ago, and I could only breast feed for a month. It’s so hard getting up every 2-3 hours to feed a newborn! I had so many solo crying sessions, and just found being a first time mother so difficult! Watching you today made me cry! I had so many friends making me feel like if I didn’t breastfeed I wasn’t giving my baby the best nutrition, and in a round-about-way made me feel like I was a horrible mom! Well my baby is on the nestle goodstart formula and it is great! I wish that our society would just take the pressure off of the formula or breast-milk debate! Thank you for telling it like it is!
Thursday August 27th, 2009 at 11:47 pm
How you doiiinnnnng Wendy? Well as i was watching your show tonight. You really touched me i was crying non-stop because I am a mother to be and i am very scared. Im 20 years old and im not really copping with the pregnancy like i should. im 7 months and i dont want to breast feed but people is making a big deal out of it. i really dont know how to handle this situation. I love your show and i will continue to watch your show because I Love You Wendy !
Thursday August 27th, 2009 at 11:45 pm
Hi Wendy,
I just saw u speaking about how u felt like a failure and girl I will say U R NO DAMN FAILURE. While u were speaking it brought tears to my eyes. Watching u crying on tv about your own personal problems just lets me know how real your show is. To be honest while living in NYC I wasn’t a fan of yours while u were on the radio. But now I love u on late nite tv. Your so funny, u think quick on your feet. I love your show and i wish u many more years on television.
Thursday August 27th, 2009 at 11:39 pm
im jenny 15 and watch ur show everyday i was crying when u were talking about this cause i just lost my mom this year and am still trying to cope with it everyone is telling me im strong cause im going through alot for a 15 yr old but no one really knows how i feel cause i dont tell anyone and i feel like i cant cause me and my mom were really close but i feel i need to be strong even though im alone and sad so i dont tell no one and well ur so lucky ur mom was there for u though that and other stuff my mom had cancer and always had seizures and all last yr she couldnt get out of bed for long and she was really sick and i couldnt spend time with her i lost alot and well just be so greatfull love u wendy
jennymarie
ps thats my sisters cell number
Thursday August 27th, 2009 at 10:57 pm
Wendy…how you doinnnn? Love your show. See it every night after working long hours and it always lifts my spirits. Think your style is refreshing and most needed in today’s mundane talk show circuit. Wish your show the best and I’ll continue to be an avid watcher and supporter.
Thursday August 27th, 2009 at 10:29 pm
How you doin”….
It all boils down to this:
Mom will always be there for you.
Love you, Wendy!
Thursday August 27th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
Hey Wendy,
Love your show….How U Doin?…I have it on my playlist to record. everyday….just in case I’m not at home…so today I rushed home to watch you..and when I went to my playlist…The Wendy Show was not there..So I called my aunt to see if she saw you…she said she was waiting on you and they played King of the Hill or some Cartoon instead…I’m iin Los Angeles…Why are they messing with us…I did see the show will be on BET tonight…but I want to know to know what happened to you today???Will see you tomorrow…hopefully…
Thursday August 27th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
wendy girl!!
i loooovvve the pink dress u wore today…
but….
it looked like ur right boob was gonna pop out the whole time!!
luv u,
christian
Thursday August 27th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
where is Wendy????????/ No one can really be watching King of the Hill!!!!!!!(can They???) this is kelly in Hesperia ,California