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Thursday June 17th, 2010 at 10:37 am
Hi Wendy, you are like my best friend. Love your show. But I must disagree with you on “Home Schooling”. 1st off I was shy and teased in school and had some cruel teachers. My 2 daughters were shy & teased in school & had some mean teachers.
So Now my daughter has 3 children ages (8, 5, 2), and she Home-Schools them. They are born leaders: They are the ones who go up to other kids, (who go to school), and start up the friendships. They are smart, confident & and not afraid. Their house is the house that the neighborhood kids want to be at. The son, is leader of his soccer team, top player. The daughter can’t understand why she doesn’t get to have a solo dance in her recital. She is the most animated dancer in her group. The youngest walks up to strangers in a restaurant and says Hi. They also have more (Home-Schooling Group Field trips), over what a normal school has.
So spend a day with my daughter, she is very friendly, and see why so many people and their children love to Home-School. When it is done right, with being regulated with yearly tests, etc. These kids are much more confident, except for the popular kids at reg schools,than normal kids. They go to excellent colleges become whatever they want. Give it a try.
Love ya,
Sherry, a grandmother & total fan
Tuesday May 18th, 2010 at 6:45 pm
wendy l love you lam still waiting for my ticket.
Saturday May 15th, 2010 at 4:14 pm
WENDY…..girl…., love you and your show, however I could not believe my ears last week a lady ask about telling her 11 year old boy about the birds and the bees, and you said….NO HE IS WAY TOO YOUNG……
I MUST TELL YOU I HAVE AN 11 YEAR GRANDCHILD GIRL AND HER MOTHER ALSO AT THIS AGE HAVE DEVELOPED PRIVATE HAIRAND BOOBS !!!!!! AND DID YOU NOT HEAR ABOUT THE 12 YEAR GIRLS WHO ARE GETTING PREGNANT. PLS, REINFORM EVERYONE THAT NOWADAYS THINGS ARE QUITE DIFFERENT THAN WHEN WE WERE GROWING UP. WE MUST ALSO PUT OUR CHILDREN ON TE FRONT BURNER AND GIVE THEM CORRECT INFORMATION, THEY SHOULD KNOW FIRST BY US THEIR PARENTS.
PERHAPS A WAY TO START IS “HOW YOU DOIN !!!!!”
love to you and yours
yvonne mille
Wednesday March 10th, 2010 at 10:51 pm
Ive been with my husband for 10 years now married for 6 within the pass three years my husband had cheated on me 3 times within the three years and I had forgiving him. for all those times now things haven’t been going so well with us and now he’s asking for a separation. we have three small children between the ages of 11 and 4. so now I want him to moved out because now hes talking to someone after being separated for a week. is it fear for me to still Carter to him for example make his dinner lunch breakfast and do laundry? I also need for us to sit down and tell the kids ASAP that daddy would be moving out and we’re no longer together I really need for him to leave because I think that it would be easier for me to handle the situation knowing that he’s talking to someone else because i do still love him. I just hate the fact that hes talking to someone else and still coming home… am I being selfish?
He thinks that we should wait for him to find a place then tell the kids but I totally disagree I think the sooner the better who knows how long that’s gonna take. please I am in need of some answer
Should I save my marriage, should I wait to tell the kids, should I still cater to him and should I be the one to sleep on the couch????
ps I love you wendy
Tuesday March 9th, 2010 at 1:18 am
Hi Wendy,
Can you have The Most Talented Mom’s In America contest? The catch is Mom’s over 45 years old. When is it our time? We put our lives on hold for Everyone, and can’t we show America 45 and over is still young enough to have one more shot. It can be Singers, Dancers, Comedians, Talk Show Host, Painters, Magic Acts,Rappers etc….
The month of May would be great because of Mother’s Day…. Only you could do it, and do it right.
I want to be discovered by The Wendy Williams Show…
Monday February 15th, 2010 at 3:08 pm
Dear Wendy
Today I was watching your show and have to give you two thumbs up. Your honesty to child rearing is right on the money. Too many parents now a days have given the time out sydrome to much leverage. I too was raise with strick parents and turn out just find. I’m not saying beating your child to an inch of their lives. I frown on those that abuse their children. But lets face it, some kids need a good spanking at times. I really dont think time out works and it doesnt teach our children anything but how to work around the next time they are in trouble. Once and a while a good spanking and removing their favorite things comes in handy.
Thank you Wendy for admitting that you are also a firm believer in a firm hand.
Friday February 12th, 2010 at 1:15 am
I was wondering if you donate any of your wigs, I check out your source and due to my finance…I can’t afford them. I have a secret I used to wear braids and I notice thinning then bald spots, I didn’t know what else to so I shaved it all off this had to be at least 7 or 8 years ago . My husband don’t know, I’ve spend the little money I have and purchase wigs. I have to sleep in them because it would be to embarrassing for me for my husband of 22 years to see me looking that that. You look so beautiful everyday and I would love to look like that.
Loving you,
Ms Debbie
Thursday January 28th, 2010 at 12:16 pm
HOW YOU DOING MS.WENDY? I HAVE AN IMPORTANT QUESTION THAT IS ACUALLY CONCERNING YOU…. I WROTE ON BLOG ABOUT MY 4 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER MS.JADA ABOUT A WEEK OR TWO AGO ABOUT HOW SHE WANTS HER HAIR LIKE YOURS AND HOW MUCH SHE TALKS ABOUT YOU…. MY QUESTION IS WHAT DO I DO WHEN MY DAUGHTER MS.JADA IS YOUR BIGGEST FAN???????????? NOW SHES TALKING ABOUT MEETING YOU AND COMING ON YOUR SHOW I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP WITH THIS ONE!!!!!!!!
SIGNED…MY DAUHTER’S YOUR BIGGEST FAN!
Friday January 22nd, 2010 at 3:59 pm
DEAR WENDY,
AS FOR THE QUESTION ON THE MOTHER -IN-LAW I HAVE TO DISAGREE WITH YOUR ANSWER.YOU CAN ONLY HAVE ONE MOTHER AND YOU SHOULD CHERISH HER NO MATTER WHAT. AS FOR HER AND THE EX-GIRLFRIEND WHY SHOULD IT MATTER. SOUNDS LIKE A JEALOUSY ISSUE. OR THEY DON’T BELIEVE THE RELATIONSHIP IS STRONG ENOUGH.PERHAPS HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR THE EX.WHAT DOES HE CARE WHO HIS MOTHER LIKES OR DISLIKES. A MOTHER HAS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.PUNISHING THE GRANDCHILD IS WRONG AND THAT IS WHO SUFFERS FROM THE CUT OFF OF THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE GRANDMOTHER.THE DIRECT WAY TO HANDLE IT WOULD BE FOR THE SON AND DAUGHTER-IN-LAW TO ASK WHAT THEY COULD DO TO MAKE THERE RELATIONSHIP BETTER WITH HIS MOM.AND ANOTHER THING IS SHE IS PROBABLY DOING IT OUT OF SPITE BECAUSE THEY ARE DEMANDING HER TO DISSOLVE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE EX-GIRLFRIEND TO WHERE IF THEY ACTED LIKE THEY COULD CARE LESS SHE WOULD END IT THATS COMMON SENSE.
“We only have One Mom, One Mommy,
One Mother in this World, One life.
Don’t wait for the Tomorrow’s
to tell Mom, you love her”
YOU SEE WENDY MY MOM DIED WHEN I WAS 9 YRS.OLD SO PLEASE DON’T EVER TELL SOMEONE TO CUT THERE MOTHER OUT OF THERE LIFE.
THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Tuesday December 22nd, 2009 at 4:44 pm
Dear wendy.My name is Cheryl and i live in ft lauderdale fl.i would like to know,do you have to dress up in long dress and hats to go to church?I’m having a hard time with these older folks.I’m a christian and a singer and im having a hard time with especially jamaican people accept me for who i am.they expect me to wear the big hats and my hair should be vergin and all that old fashions stuff and i dont think god look at what you wear he sees your heart.what you think wendy.also i would love to be a guest on your show.i wrote a song called i was a victim for women who are in abusive relationships or out but having a hard time coping with the fater math.i have a message and it needs to be heard.please vist my page at http://www.myspace.com/cherylrosegreen
Thursday December 17th, 2009 at 2:26 am
Hello Wendy,
How you doing? Well, I am a big fan of yours. You are my BFF in my head(LOL). Since I have been laid off due to economy I am able to look a job during the day and see you in the evening. Well one the reason I am writing to you maybe to a little strange request but I would like to know if you can donate one of wigs to me preferably a darker one even though I love them all. I notice that it is hard for me to take care of my hair since I have been taking care of my granny who will be 79 on December 24th. She has alzheimer so life has been very stressful with lossing my job and having to help take care of my granny. I just broke up with my boyfriend whom I renited with after 20 years. It just seems as if everything is coming apart for me right now. I trust and believe in GOD and I know that he will bring me through all of this .
Thank you just for listening and I hope to hear from you soon.
Your BFF in my head,
Mel